Channel Title: Milo Stewart Channel Description: My name is Milo and my pronouns are they/them. I believe radical access to trans healthcare through depathologization is a pathway to trans liberation. I get nerdy about social justice and gender theory, and I sometimes document my life in grad school. My channel banner was made by Ezra, known as @ezraarae on Twitter. <video> Top Surgery Uncertainty and Femininity Description: I got top surgery last July! This video shows my results and talks about how I knew I wanted top surgery. ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram and Twitter: @genderthrash Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart ✨Video Sections 00:00-04:00 intro 04:00-12:56 how i knew i wanted top surgery 12:56-14:20 info about my surgery 14:20-18:39 anxiety about regret 18:39-26:23 analyzing predictions that I will detransition 26:23-31:48 how I feel about my femininity 31:48-33:35 announcements ✨I believe all citations have the full title and authors in the video except for the article by Talia Mae Bettcher. That's titled "Trapped in the Wrong Theory: Rethinking Trans Oppression and Resistance." ✨ The song at the beginning is "Guyliner" by Dorian Electra </video> <video> My problem with “transmasculine” (And can we talk about AFAB/AMAB, too?) Description: These labels are put onto me, and I think that causes harm. Let's talk about it! ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash ✨ Resources VIn's article: https://medium.com/@transstyleguide/alternatives-to-afab-and-amab-d7cf8fe20a72 Transmasc wiki: https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Transmasculine Transmasc Healthline Article: https://www.healthline.com/health/transmasculine#changes-over-time Transfem wiki: https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Transfeminine Transfem Healthline article: https://www.healthline.com/health/transfeminine AFAB/AMAB wiki: https://nonbinary.wiki/wiki/Sexes#Assigned_female_at_birth "Transfeminine!!!" by Jane Nance: https://archive.org/details/tvtstapestry47unse/page/30/mode/2up?q=transfeminine ✨Video Sections Intro: 00:00-02:11 History and usage: 02:11-06:35 Criticisms: 06:35-12:47 My relationship to 'transmasc': 12:47-15:34 Alternatives and community: 15:34-21:56 Rainbow background: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pCJp-7HkMF4 </video> <video> I felt pressure to be polyamorous and it sucked 😭😭 Description: Relationships are complicated! ✨ Subscribe to my side channel of nerdy s3x stuff: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh5Q_4aOJsq66iixEa7R4SQ ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart Chapters 00:00-04:16 intro 04:16-12:53 Is polyamory more queer than monogamy? 12:53-20:37 Can you switch between polyamory and monogamy? </video> <video> Demi Lovato, misgendering can suck, actually! Description: ✨ I want to hear from you! Here's a Google Form to submit community contributions to an upcoming project: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe6sXBhndL69Zsrqcom6j-t83_Vhf04c9s9uX_-P_wP9gdxjA/viewform?usp=sf_link ✨If you missed my last video, you can watch it here: https://youtu.be/TjZ_V5jsGgI ✨Demi's Insta post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CRRfOA5LUYD/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link Ericka's post: https://www.instagram.com/p/CRUoyDAjJJK/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash ✨Video sections 00:00-03:38 Introduction 03:38-09:25 Celebrity Culture and Nonbinary Representation 09:25-12:35 Respectability Politics in Enby/Trans Communities 12:35-18:04 Understating the Harm of Misgendering 18:04-19:06 Announcements </video> <video> he didn't tell me he's CIS! (first date do's and don't's) Description: ✨ get 10% off Starsi from Early to Bed with the code* "MILO10" https://www.early2bed.com/starsi.html/?ref=milostewart ✨ Subscribe to my side channel of nerdy sex stuff: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCh5Q_4aOJsq66iixEa7R4SQ ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart * indicates affiliate code (I get a small commission on sales at no extra cost to you) Chapters 00:00-01:40 introduction 01:40-05:17 disclosing my transness 05:17-09:52 telling dates I'm ace (not in bio) 09:52-16:30 bringing up sex interests (and I launched a new channel!) 16:30-19:12 embarrassed by my YouTube channel </video> <video> calling out toxic traits based on your 🍂nonbinary fall aesthetic🍂 Description: ✨You can get 10% your purchase with the code "10MILOSTEWART" from https://dossier.co ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart ✨ Chapters 00:00-00:51 intro 00:51-2:16 Dossier collaboration 02:16-02:47 idk I had fun editing this 02:47-10:09 outfits! Music used: https://youtu.be/hdZLNZBZFlY Stock footage background: https://youtu.be/qm_ztm9V5zg </video> <video> YES, 'they/them' can be misgendering! Description: ✨ I want to hear from you! Here's a Google Form to submit community contributions to an upcoming project: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe6sXBhndL69Zsrqcom6j-t83_Vhf04c9s9uX_-P_wP9gdxjA/viewform?usp=sf_link If you missed my last video, you can watch it here: https://youtu.be/XnKBSxen0cA ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash ✨Resources Gracie's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@gracie_chaos/video/6984498036223397126?is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 Lena Wilson's video: https://slate.com/human-interest/2018/05/using-gender-neutral-pronouns-could-actually-misgender-people.html ✨Sections 00:00-04-04 Introduction 04:04-08:52 What is misgendering? 08:52-13:04 gender neutrality as gendering 13:04-19:16 calling strangers 'they/them' 19:16-23:01 degendering examples background: https://youtu.be/Oqx0ODjUo_k </video> <video> Why did I stop dating cis people? Description: Let's get into the tmi of my dating life!!! Kat Blaque's video: https://youtu.be/esEAgjNJwik Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram and Twitter: @genderthrash Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart </video> <video> I love bottom growth | nonbinary HRT Description: ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart ✨ Resources Transmasc pump from Early2Bed (code "MILO10" for 10% off*): https://www.early2bed.com/transmasc-pump.html/?ref=milostewart Pump from Wet for Her ("MILO" for 10% off)*: https://www.wetforher.com/trans-masc-pump.html?rfsn=5859760.ef3d0fb Shotpocket stroker from Early2Bed (code "MILO10" for 10% off)*: https://www.early2bed.com/shotpocket.html/?ref=milostewart Article on clitorolphallus development: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/33834632/ 1986 HRT study: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/BF01542220 2016 HRT study: https://academic.oup.com/jcem/article/101/11/4260/2765000 Finasteride and dutasteride study: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5818776/ Kade's stroker guide: https://youtu.be/SOvTfX2B9tA Kade's pumping guide: https://youtu.be/ZvqHDJYw6yE Big clit energy card: https://www.etsy.com/listing/896463506/big-clit-energy-gay-card-queer-lgbtqia?ref=yr_purchases * affiliate links ✨ Chapters 00:00-02:49 Intro 02:49-05:23 What is bottom growth like? 05:23-11:04 Gender euphoria and dysphoria 11:04-12:46 Sex with growth 12:46-21:19 Intimacy with cis people v. T4T </video> <video> Trender Reacts to Wholesome Trans and Nonbinary TikToks Description: ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Support me on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash ✨ TikToks I watched @category_fury0: https://www.tiktok.com/@category_fury0/video/7007344573785607429?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @will.is.pretty: https://www.tiktok.com/@will.is.pretty/video/7007421458565664005?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @jasperjhonston4: https://www.tiktok.com/@jasperjohnston4/video/7002208709636066566?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @phantom_sigh: https://www.tiktok.com/@phantom_sigh/video/7005998450449878277?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @gia.sed: https://www.tiktok.com/@gia.sed/video/7006092912568126725?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @9tailsthequeen: https://www.tiktok.com/@9tailsthequeen/video/7007117217305218309?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @slurpyprincess: https://www.tiktok.com/@slurpyprincess/video/7006757757286239494?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 and: https://www.tiktok.com/@slurpyprincess/video/7004819055479753989?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @edsonmountaineggroll: https://www.tiktok.com/@edsonmountaineggroll/video/6997849377196854534?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @hugomongous: https://www.tiktok.com/@hugomongous/video/7004942727171394821?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @shmelk: https://www.tiktok.com/@shmekl/video/7007202003667619077?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 and: https://www.tiktok.com/@shmekl/video/7002234691247983878?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @coltdeadbolt: https://www.tiktok.com/@coltdeadbolt/video/6998149733516725510?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @dabygunn: https://www.tiktok.com/@dabygunn/video/7004986348633427206?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @hrt_monitor: https://www.tiktok.com/@hrt_monitor/video/7004303117751799045?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @puffdaughtery: https://www.tiktok.com/@puffdaughtery/video/7006849181151153414?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @nasa_shirt_friend: https://www.tiktok.com/@nasa_shirt_friend/video/7001911845036543238?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @transmasc: https://www.tiktok.com/@transmasc/video/7003855463943048453?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @emilymcsings: https://www.tiktok.com/@emilymcsings/video/6987530811893419269?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @superknovemusic: https://www.tiktok.com/@superknovamusic/video/6998183760592129285?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 @leo_tenxr: https://www.tiktok.com/@leo_tenxr/video/7000217434296749318?lang=en&is_copy_url=0&is_from_webapp=v1&sender_device=pc&sender_web_id=6962351079158138373 </video> <video> Trans Sex 101 🏳️‍⚧️ How to choose a sex toy! Description: You can get 10% your order at Enby with the code "MILO10" or using my link: https://shopenby.com/?ref=na6phnj1ru ✨ Toys I talked about Romp Wave: https://shopenby.com/products/romp-wave-mint?ref=na6phnj1ru Kip by Dame: https://shopenby.com/products/kip-dame-products-yellow/?ref=na6phnj1ru ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart ✨ Resources Erika Lynae has a ton of videos that have helped me understand sex toys! Her material guide: https://youtu.be/BHbR2fNNNnc Her video on Adam and Eve: https://youtu.be/igXU3OMvTWA Her video on avoiding toxic materials: https://youtu.be/PT9QsSde4sQ Understanding phallo: https://youtu.be/7L2tCmYTkck Kade Cooks makes amazing resources on sex advice specific to trans men and trasmasc folks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKlxi-E_4EHJL8byf8-B5dg Chapters 00:00-02:09 intro 02:09-07:34 knowing what you want + trans needs 07:34-11:52 material safety 11:52-15:18 rumbly v. buzzy 15:18-19:55 Romp Wave review 19:55-23:50 Dame Kip review </video> <video> I thought I miscarried... after starting birth control | Trans Birth Control Description: ✨Thanks to Atlas VPN for sponsoring this video! Try Atlas VPN for $1.39 a month: https://atlasv.pn/Milo Use this site to see all the Netflix shows/movies you could unlock with Atlas VPN: https://unogs.com ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash ✨Resources #BleedingWhileTrans All birth control options with pros/cons: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control What to do if you miss a combined pill: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/miss-combined-pill/ What to do if you miss a mini pill: https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/contraception/miss-progestogen-only-pill/ Teen Vogue Article: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/things-to-know-about-birth-control-trans-non-binary Academic article on testosterone and birth control: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30997955/ Decidual cast TikTok: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMdXQW4os/ Get $10 off your purchase of THINX (period underwear) at this link or use code "milo"*: https://www.shethinx.com/milo The menstrual cup I use is the Moon Cup*: https://www.mooncup.co.uk/?ref=2515 * indicates affiliate link (I get a commission on all sales at no extra cost to you!) ✨Video sections 00:00-01:33 Introduction 01:33-04:03 Why do some trans people use birth control? 04:03-06:08 Atlas VPN 06:08-10:15 Is taking HRT and the combined pill safe? 10:15-12:26 My experiences on the pill 12:26-18:41 Miscarriage scare 18:41-22:34 Why is this important? Royalty free background: https://youtu.be/YPqv9J6wFwE </video> <video> Chatting sex work and decriminalization with Jade Blair! 🌸 Description: I'm so grateful to Jade for joining me on this video! Please share some love and follow her socials: https://beacons.ai/jadeblairxox Find me online: https://linktr.ee/GenderThrash Milo's pronouns: they/them/theirs </video> <video> I survived anti-SJW YouTube Description: I survived an online harassment campaign in 2016. Anger at my political opinions was turned into transphobic abuse. Here's my story. ✨ If you're struggling with your mental health, please seek help! Trans Lifeline: https://translifeline.org US number: (877) 565-8860 Canada: (877) 330-6366 ✨ Twitter thread by Kat Blaque on implicit biases: https://twitter.com/kat_blaque/status/1358544872676884480?s=20 ✨ Support survivors of online harassment: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDz6AP8ieCe6_nTumMvYw8VYdVSLcIzYR ✨ An interesting article covering the harassment I faced and my reactions to it at the time: https://www.dailydot.com/upstream/milo-stewart-trans-youtube-trolls/ ✨ I made a playlist of some of my videos from 2016-2017 that I reference in this video: https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLDz6AP8ieCe4waxZMui6PfgfCcprf8M17 ✨ If you're struggling to get into therapy, BetterHelp is a great way to get connected with a therapist within a day! I have personally used the service BetterHelp and recommend it! BetterHelp*: https://www.tryonlinetherapy.com/milostewart ✨ "The Power of Now" is a book that greatly helped me emotionally handle the harassment. I definitely recommend it for anyone interested in mindfulness! ✨ My things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart * indicates affiliate link Sections intro: 00:00 rise to infamy: 03:52 do I still think all white people are racist? 15:37 76 genders and memes 22:16 mental health talks: 29:50 how I handle harassment now: 41:06 what now?: 49:18 </video> <video> how to have a 🔥 Hot Trans Summer 🔥 Description: ✨ I want to hear from you! Here's a Google Form to submit community contributions to an upcoming project: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe6sXBhndL69Zsrqcom6j-t83_Vhf04c9s9uX_-P_wP9gdxjA/viewform?usp=sf_link If you missed my last video, you can watch it here: https://youtu.be/KKt0XQLWk1c ✨Check out Outplay swimwear with the code "Milo10" for 10% off: https://outplaybrand.com High-waited boardshorts I wore: https://www.billabong.com/sol-searcher-fixed-waist-2%22-boardshorts-194843545269.html#cgid=women_swim_boardshorts&start=1&hitcount=10 ✨ My Things! Pronouns: they/them/theirs Instagram, Twitter and TikTok: @genderthrash Want to support my content? Join my Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/genderdeceiverclub Want to tip me for my work? here's my ko-fi: https://ko-fi.com/milostewart Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/genderthrash ✨ Sections 00:00-02:58 Intro 02:58-05:36 You can feel joy 05:36-08:13 Trans bubbles 08:13-13:36 Practical tips 13:36-16:39 Un-gender summer 16:39-19:36 You don't have to make cis people comfortable 19:36-22:02 thot 4 thot 22:02-22:33 Announcements </video>

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My name is Milo and my pronouns are they/them. I believe radical access to trans healthcare through depathologization is a pathway to trans liberation. I get nerdy about social justice and gender theory, and I sometimes document my life in grad school.

My channel banner was made by Ezra, known as @ezraarae on Twitter.

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